Dear friends and family:
I hope this finds you well.
With Teddy's permission I would like to take this opportunity to tell you about Teddy in hopes that you can help her. People often ask me for help here but I've learned to discriminate critically - based on what resources/ connections I can offer and whether I think the help the person needs is really beyond what his/her family and community can offer... so I don't come to you lightly with this request and I hope you can take time to read this email and consider helping Teddy.
Teddy Nabukalu is 25 years old and a neighbor who lives about four houses up the hill from my compound. Over a month ago I met her one morning while she was fetching water from the well near my home. She stopped me on the road asking me if it was true that teeth can be replaced after they were knocked out. She showed me her neck which bore the marks of a hand print, and she told me she was assaulted coming home from work in the evening and lost two front teeth among other injuries. She lost her job because she couldn't make herself repeat her travels to and from work. She was too scared and said she was even frightened to fetch water during the daytime. She kept on repeating how different her life was from the day of the assault and how not having her teeth made her feel so "wrong". Teddy is currently looking for a job but has been rejected by potential employers who said her looks were "scary".
In response, I was able to connect Teddy to a Ugandan psychologist experienced in trauma so she is getting mental health care. Regarding her teeth, there are 3 to 4 places here that can provide implants. However, implants are really expensive! The costs are prohibitive for her and her family - especially a family that has to get water from a well (meaning home without running water). The total cost of a single implant procedure is on average 9 million UGX, and the cheapest place I found was a dental clinic at a missionary hospital called Mengo Hospital which charged around 4 million UGX per implant. I'm usually not one to go for the cheapest care but I was daunted by the cost estimates especially when Teddy needed 2 implants... but when I heard the implant surgeon at Mengo Hospital was an American dentist I was soooo relieved. I know its so biased but I just feel more comfortable knowing the dentist had an American dental education... Anyway, Teddy and I attended her consultation with Dr. Ken Chapman today and she is considered a good candidate for successful implant (she doesn't have the risk factors for implant failure, e.g., smoking, pregnancy, diabetes).
The doctor broke down the costs summarized in the table below:
I'm wondering if you would be willing to contribute $25, or $50 or $100, or more, or any amount, to help towards Teddy getting her teeth fixed? I was thinking if I could get 50 friends to contribute $50 each then we would be able to cover her implants cost! Back when I lived in the US, $50 was like a weeks worth of groceries or a really fancy Japanese dinner out or splurging at Whole Foods, you know? And this amount can make such a massive, lifelong difference for Teddy. It's not just a cosmetic difference for her, but can literally affect her ability to be employed and long term livelihood.
If you would be willing to help, please can you reply one on one back to me please? Also, please feel free to share with friends who may be interested in helping. I will provide full accountability with visits to Teddy's home and Mengo Hospital Dental Clinic. I will be directly dispersing the fees to the dental clinic and. I'll create a password protected blog where I'll post updates and receipts so you can see your money is used.
Finally, I'm so sorry if you're annoyed or offended that I sent this email to you! Please accept my sincere apology! Many thanks for reading, Sharon
Projected treatment plan invoice
Receipt: Initial consultation to assess for Teddy's eligibility for implants